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12 February 2012

I'm being harassed at work because my colleagues think I'm gay. What can I do?

This information applies to England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland

I am called names, and teased by my colleagues at work, because they think I am gay. I have spoken to my boss but he has done nothing about it, and says it’s just a bit of fun and I shouldn’t take it so seriously. What can I do?

Any behaviour like this in the workplace that upsets an individual, can amount to harassment. Employers are responsible for the actions of their staff, as well as staff being individually responsible for their behaviour towards their colleagues. If you are being harassed, your employer may be responsible unless they can show that they took all possible steps to prevent the harassment. It is unlawful to discriminate against, or to harass workers, because they are believed to be lesbian, gay or bisexual, whether or not they are actually lesbian, gay or bisexual.

Since your boss is refusing to take your concerns seriously, you may want to raise a grievance with him. If you decide to make a claim to an employment tribunal, you may need to raise a written grievance before you do this.

If you think you have been discriminated against because of your sexuality, contact the Equality and Human Rights Commission at: (New window) www.equalityhumanrights.com.

For more information about raising a written grievance with your boss, in England, Wales and Scotland, see Sorting out problems at work and in Northern Ireland, see Dealing with grievances, dismissal and disciplinary action at work.

For more information in England, Wales and Scotland about discrimination at work because you are lesbian, gay or bisexual, see What can I do if my employer treats me unfairly because of my sexuality, in Discrimination fact sheets.

For more information about other types of discrimination and harrassment in the workplace see Basic rights at work.

 

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